Is He Emotionally Available?
A Dating Checklist for Smart Women
If you’ve ever dealt with mixed signals, breadcrumbing, or men who disappear just when things feel good — this checklist will help you spot the truth before you invest your heart
I was in the perfect relationship...
Or so I thought.
But something felt off, even from the beginning.
The signs were so subtle that I didn't know they were important.
Things like feeling compelled to act and look perfect at all times. He didn't say this, but something in his actions told me this was necessary.
Things like planning strategic bonding conversations right before he would attempt to cross a new sexual threshold.
Things like having a family that wasn't warm and welcoming to me.
So I played them off as normal growing pains of a relationship and I ignored them.
And it took an entire year for him to show me who he really was.
This man who appeared to cherish and protect my heart like no one ever had, suddenly turned on me and revealed his cruelty.
I had done all the healing work, so I thought I was a pro at listening to my intuition.
But it turns out, I was missing the more subtle signs of emotional immaturity, avoidance, and manipulation.
This man had all the therapy language, acted very emotionally available and attentive, and claimed that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.
But the signs of his avoidance were always there, I just didn't know what to look for until it was too late.
So I created this checklist to help other
women like myself.
WHAT YOU GET:
✅ Spot the Red Flags with Clarity:
No more second-guessing yourself or wondering if you’re “being too picky.” This checklist reveals the exact signs of emotional unavailability so you can trust what you see and stop wasting your energy.
✅ The Girl-Math Formula:
Get a simple, precise formula to calculate a man’s “risk score.” Instead of falling for potential, you’ll finally have a clear way to measure if he’s truly worth your time.
✅ Know the Green Flags Too:
It’s not just about avoiding the wrong men — it’s about recognizing the right ones. Learn the qualities of a man who’s emotionally available and actually ready for love.
✅ Save Your Precious Time:
Stop pouring months (or years) into men who can’t meet you at your level. With this checklist, you’ll quickly see who deserves a second date — and who doesn’t.
✅ Filter Dating Apps with Ease:
Use the checklist as a filter to cut through the noise online. You’ll be able to spot mismatches almost instantly and focus only on men who are aligned.
✅ Stage-by-Stage Guidance:
Whether you’ve just met, are committing, or building a life together, this guide shows you what to look for at each stage so you stay empowered and in control of your love life.
REGULAR PRICE: $67
TODAY'S PRICE: $27
This isn’t just a checklist — it’s a clarity tool. A filter. A shortcut to finally seeing the truth in dating so you can stop settling and start choosing with confidence.
How do I know this checklist will actually help me?
Because it’s designed specifically for smart, high-achieving women who tend to overlook the subtle red flags. This checklist takes the guesswork out of dating by giving you a proven framework to evaluate men clearly — so you no longer have to rely only on your emotions or “gut feelings.”
I already know some red flags… will this just tell me what I already know?
Not at all. This isn’t a basic list you can Google. It’s a structured guide that helps you quantify emotional availability and see the hidden patterns you’ve likely missed before. Most women who use it are surprised by how much clarity they gain.
I’m not currently dating — is this still for me?
Yes! In fact, this is the best time to learn. That way, when you do meet someone new, you’ll already have the tools in place to spot what’s real and what’s a distraction. And if you’re reflecting on past relationships, the checklist can help you finally understand what went wrong.
What if I think I’m being “too picky” by using this?
You’re not being picky — you’re being intentional. There’s a big difference. This checklist helps you stop settling and wasting energy on the wrong men so you can create space for the right one. It’s about clarity, not perfection.
How long will it take to use the checklist?
It’s quick and simple. You can run through it in just a few minutes — and the more you use it, the more natural it becomes. It’s designed to be a tool you can keep in your back pocket for every stage of dating.
Is this just for spotting narcissists?
Nope! While it can absolutely help you identify narcissistic traits, it goes beyond that. This is really about emotional availability — the key to building a healthy, lasting partnership. It helps you filter out all types of mismatched men, not just narcissists.
Why should I pay $27 when I can read dating advice online for free?
Free advice is usually generic and scattered. This checklist is a clear, structured tool that gives you a step-by-step way to evaluate men, instead of relying on random tips. Think of it as an investment in saving your time, energy, and heart.
What makes this checklist different from other dating advice?
I’m not just teaching theory. I’m a licensed therapist and relationship coach who has spent years helping high-achieving women like you break free from painful patterns in love. This checklist is the exact tool I give my private clients — and now you get it for a fraction of the cost.
STILL ON THE FENCE?
Here’s the truth: every month you spend second-guessing, overlooking red flags, or giving the wrong men a chance… is a month you could be moving closer to the love you actually want.
This checklist isn’t about being negative or “too picky.” It’s about clarity. It’s about finally trusting yourself, saving your precious time, and only investing your heart where it will be cherished.
You don’t need another year of wasted energy or “almost” relationships. You need a proven filter to quickly spot what’s real and what’s not.