It's time to raise your standards

Today my partner and I are celebrating an anniversary, and I was delighted to learn that it means as much to him as it does to me.

In fact, we had to delay our special dinner due to the restaurant being closed, but he asked that we make a point of spending some quality time together doing something else because he wanted to see me on our special day.

How cool is that?!

I gotta be honest, I never thought I’d find a man who cares about these sentimental things as much as I do. 

But here he is. 

And it reminds me of a fundamental shift that I had to make to attract someone of this caliber. 

I had to raise my standards.

Now, I know, most of us have felt compelled to actually lower our standards because it seems there’s not much out there. 

But the reality is, when we expect better, we actually get better.

And here’s why…

High-caliber men aren’t attracted to women with low standards. 

Let that sink in for a minute. 

The truth is, keeping your standards low is making you a mismatch to quality men.  

You aren’t on their radar because you’re on a different frequency. 

Think about this in reverse. 

If you met a man who was a doormat for others and settled for poor treatment, would you find him attractive?  

Probably not.  

He wouldn’t even register as a romantic prospect, right?

That’s what you need to remember about men with high standards. 

They want a woman with high standards. 

A woman who knows her worth. 

A woman who can offer just as much as she expects. 

So, I invite you to check in with yourself today.  

Where are your standards these days?  

Are you settling for treatment or people who aren’t aligned with your desires? 

If so, that’s what you’ll continue to get.  

You have to be willing to walk away from anything that isn’t on your list of non-negotiables.

And you’ll be rewarded with someone so dazzling that you’ll wonder how you ever settled before. 

Trust me, magic is waiting for you on the other side of being brave!