The mindset shift that will change your life

I hear from new clients every single day that they feel trapped in their current reality. 

Can you relate? 

They keep running on the same hamster wheel, getting the same results. 

They’re burnt out and don’t know how to get what they want. 

These women are tired. 

They’ve been working for years, maybe even decades, to break through the drudgery of mediocre love, mediocre work, or just a mediocre life. 

But somewhere deep inside, they believe that something better awaits them. 

And yet they feel like they just keep running in circles.  

And that’s the real puzzle here.

Why are these women running in circles? Aren’t they working towards something? Why do they keep finding themselves back in the same patterns?

If you were to ask any of them, they’d tell you that they’re doing all the right stuff, and they are! 

They’re managing their health, their careers, their families, their homes…everything! 

They’re working hard! 

But this is where we have to go back to Einstein’s definition of insanity: they’re doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. 

So what is it that they keep doing over and over again that’s keeping them stuck? 

They keep grinding away at their goals. 

They keep pushing themselves to the limit. 

They keep working hard. 

They’re operating from a false premise that ‘good things come to those who work hard’. 

Well, I’ve got news for you.  

Good things come to those who expect good things, not those who earn good things. 

And there’s a perfectly logical explanation for this: when you walk into a room with high self-worth, you exude a confidence that others instinctively read, and they treat you differently based on that information.  

The world literally opens up for you when you believe you’re deserving of care, respect, and abundance. 

End. Of. Story. 

People obsess over the importance of working hard to earn what you want, but this premise is flawed. 

You don’t need to work hard to earn your right for a good life, you need to get honest about what you really want and act on inspiration.

Interestingly, you’ll probably find that you continue to work hard even once you get what you want. But that's because you'll be inspired by your life, which means that the work won't feel hard anymore. You just won't be able to stop yourself!

Think about the most successful and happy people you know. They probably work hard, but I know they'll tell you that they aren't troubled by their work because they can't stop it from flowing out of them.

So yes, you may still end up working hard but it doesn't feel hard and it's definitely not the reason things are coming to you.

Things are coming to you because you attract them with your inspired action and high self-worth. 

So, what does this all mean? 

The secret sauce to getting everything you want in life (including your amazing partner) is to stop believing that you have to earn every damn thing!!!

I want you to stop settling! 

I want you to raise your standards!!! 

You’re already deserving of everything you want, but you have to start believing it and acting like it. 

I've made it my life’s mission to teach other women how to get what they really want in life.  

I myself was told all my life that my expectations were too high, so I believed them. 

But when I stopped believing that garbage and stepped into my inherent worthiness, everything changed. 

Which means I started saying no things that weren’t right for me. 

I said no to opportunities that looked really shiny. 

I said no to men who didn’t have all of the qualities I was looking for.  

I said no to spending my time with people or activities that didn’t light me up. 

Did I drop all of my responsibilities? Hell no! 

But I stopped wasting my energy on trying to earn my place in the world. 

I raised my standards, and the Universe matched me at my new level. 

You can do this too, my friend! 

I’m still working this magic in other areas of my life. I’ve still got blocks that I’m working through. 

But I hope you’ll join me in learning how to clear your blocks and raise your standards so that you can get all the love and abundance that you so deserve and desire. 

If this inspires you, reply to this email and set up a single coaching call to uncover your biggest blocks. 

And stayed tuned for my 30-day dating challenge, where you’ll learn how to set your standards right where they belong, and act on your new level of worthiness to attract a partner who blows your mind! 

I want the entire world to realize that this is accessible to them. Join me now and let’s create some waves!